Shaming, prejudice and stereotypes: what is life really like for women in IT?

We examine common stereotypes about women in IT and show how they look in real team and company work.

  • Stereotype 1. This is not women's work
  • Stereotype 2. Women's brains are wired differently
  • Stereotype 3. Women in IT are unsociable, closed off, and antisocial
  • Stereotype 4. Oh, come on! Girls are overly emotional, everything annoys them, and their mental state is unstable

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Read the article on vc.ru. First came the news that an IT conference in Germany had been canceled. The reason: "white male dominance."

Then feminists from Tatarstan published an article about the oppression of women in Innopolis. It mentioned the headliner of the Stachka conference, known for his androcentric views.

The IT conference chat has been on fire for the third day, and it is still unclear how to put it out. Some people stand up for Saveliev, while others say: "Women in IT really are being oppressed; stop keeping it quiet!"

Inside our team, we decided to find out whether things are really as bad as they are described on social media.

As an example, let us look at how things are in our company kt.team, an IT integrator with a staff of 90+ people, 25 of whom are women.

But first, a bit of global statistics.

According to Stack Overflow data for 2019, men accounted for 91.7% of all IT specialists, and in

In CIS, it is even higher (93.9%). It is no surprise that the majority opinion is: "Women in IT are rare and exceptional."

They are attributed with strange character traits and a special mindset; they are seen as unusual and "not like everyone else."

We became interested in what stereotypes our female colleagues face.

Do they feel biased treatment because of their profession, or is this problem exaggerated? Jacquelin

Marketing Director: "We made a real effort to stay objective while writing this article - we interviewed women from kt.team (a front-end developer, an HR manager) and men (front-end and back-end developers). In the end, we could not even collect three stereotypes among our own people, so we had to go out into the field for prejudice, to people far from IT."

Stereotype 1. This is not women's work

  1. Perhaps the strongest prejudice that has been drilled into our heads for centuries.

  2. Society long believed that a woman's purpose was to give birth to and raise children and maintain the household.

  3. There are still all kinds of skirt sects, and women are expected to find self-fulfillment through the Kinder, Küche, Kirche formula.

  4. Today the law tells us that "not a woman's job" is a list of professions forbidden for women. They are mostly related to heavy lifting and hazardous working conditions. And nothing from IT is on that list.

Stereotype 2. Women's brains are wired differently

  1. They have a more developed right hemisphere, which is responsible for emotions, while men have a more developed left hemisphere, which is responsible for logic.

  2. Another version says that in women, neural connections are mostly between the brain hemispheres, while in men they are within the hemispheres. Either way, something is supposedly wrong with women's brains.

  3. All of this is now called by one word: neurosexism.

  4. Neuroscientists have proven that the brains of newborn boys and girls have no gender-specific differences.

  5. However, prejudices about intellectual differences have a strong impact on further development.

  6. If by age 5-7 the whole kindergarten has already "learned" that boys are smarter than girls, some girls simply lose confidence and give in to social pressure.

  7. Such girls will not go into IT not because they cannot handle the training program, but because they accepted as children that they need something simpler.

Stereotype 3. Women in IT are unsociable, closed off, and antisocial

The statistics say otherwise. According to data from the American Center for the Study of Psychological Types, the share of introverts is 47-55% among women and 50-55% among men. So the chance of meeting an unsociable man is about the same as meeting an unsociable woman. There is another interesting nuance here. Very often, if a woman in IT is an extrovert, she is "poached" into related professions where communication skills matter more than programming, such as IT sales or HR.

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Stereotype 4. Oh, come on! Girls are overly emotional, everything annoys them, and their mental state is unstable

There is an interesting book by American author and psychology doctor Theresa Houston, "How Women Decide: Truth, Myths, and How Strategies Define the Best Choice." A comparison of stress responses shows that men are slightly more likely to take risks in difficult situations than women. Our stress responses differ, but you cannot say that one is better and the other worse; they are simply DIFFERENT.

Stereotype 5. Marry well - what else would you go into IT for?

This is debatable. Many women admit that at least once they have thought that in such a strongly male profession, their chances of finding a partner are higher. Forbes says there are fewer office romances in IT than in many other industries. Our own experience also shows that developers are too absorbed in their projects to be distracted by romance.

Stereotype 6. Everyone in IT is smart, but there are no attractive people

We could show photos of the women working at kt.team here, but discussing them would be unethical. In fact, all the women here are very beautiful. They themselves say that IT gives them more freedom of self-expression - there is no dress code, you do not have to wear heels or worry about other women's opinions; you can experiment a lot with style.

Stereotype 7. Men do not want to date women in IT because of income differences. It feels unpleasant when your girlfriend earns much more than you do

  1. Yes, IT is now one of the highest-paid fields.

  2. But it is better not to be insecure about your partner's earnings and instead look for ways to increase your own income.

  3. A woman is unlikely to brag about her salary on purpose; if men were a little less self-critical, everything would be fine. After all, men can also suffer from society expecting them to be "successful success."

  4. Sometimes it helps to just relax; money is not everything.

In conclusion

Fortunately, there is no place for such stereotypes in our team.

We do not divide people by gender, age, or other socio-demographic criteria; on our kt.team website you can see the whole team in person. And when hiring, we use standardized tests for all candidates so we can objectively assess the level of competencies we need. It is believed that gender, age, and racial diversity helps teams make more balanced decisions; this has been proven by research.

But despite this fact and hundreds of years of struggle for women's rights, the statistics say there is no gender equality in any country in the world.

The overall trend is encouraging - there are indeed more women, at least in IT specialties. This is also a stage that society has to go through, even if it comes with scandals and protests. Jacquelin

Marketing Director: "When we interviewed women for this article, the following opinion came up: "

Sometimes men are patronizing or snicker.

For example, they say:

  • "Your desk is covered in all sorts of cute little things
  • follow
  • please
  • so they would not creep over to us

Some, on the contrary, start to care and become a little more protective".

This shows that even now, in our enlightened and tolerant age, a female programmer can encounter all kinds of reactions. Can this be considered shaming? The question remains open.

But let us be honest: are we always equally kind to everyone around us?

Who among us has never once in their life joked at the expense of a classmate or laughed at a colleague or friend? And were those jokes always friendly and enjoyable for the person? This is probably also part of diversity - calmly accepting the clash of different opinions and viewpoints, because everyone has the right to fill their life with meaning in their own way.

What prejudices have we not covered yet

Guys, are there any of you working in an overwhelmingly female team? Do you feel that your female colleagues somehow restrict your rights? And a question for the women: are there more prejudices within your workplace, or is this more about ordinary people?

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